Showing posts with label Anniversary. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Anniversary. Show all posts

Monday, November 21, 2011

A Lifetime Commitment

 A wedding anniversary is the celebration of love, trust, partnership, tolerance and tenacity. The order varies for any given year. ~Paul Sweeney

My husband and I celebrated our anniversary yesterday. In rather laid back ways. No big trips or dinners. We went to Louisville to walk in the St. Jude Give Thanks. Walk. That was to support St. Jude Hospital that has done so much for my little great niece who has leukemia but is now in remission. This walk is a fundraiser the whole family takes part in to raise money for the hospital so they can keep helping children like Kaelyn. Then Darrell's group sang at a community center for a Thanksgiving dinner. The night before our anniversary we went to a booksigning of four writer friends. So I guess our weekend was full of the things we both love - family, books, and singing. 

 A long marriage is two people trying to dance a duet and two solos at the same time. ~Anne Taylor Fleming

We've been married forever. Well maybe not forever in the sense of history forever, but nearly forever in our own history. The battered and well worn picture above was taken the first year we started dating. We were at an amusement park with a church group and ducked into one of those little booths they used to have where you put in your coins and the machine spit out a strip of photos. Probably the very first picture of us together. We were both so young. And here's a recent picture. A lot of water under the bridge between the two photos. A lot of good times, a few hard times. 

Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads which sew people together through the years. ~Simone Signoret

That's how life goes. Many threads of life connecting us. It's the same with a book when I'm writing. I have to come up with those threads of life to make my story and people come to life. Of course I have to give my characters plenty of hard times because while happily ever after might make a good ending, happily the whole book through doesn't make for enough conflict to keep readers interested. Characters need problems to solve. 

Hope the threads connecting you with your loved ones this week are threads of happiness. Thanks for reading.





Thursday, November 20, 2008

Famous Quotes on Fame

I'm a day late today. Yesterday was my anniversary. Darrell and I have been married umpteen years. I remember noting the anniversary where I'd been married half my life and then the one two-thirds. Now I'm heading toward the three-fourths but that's still a ways down the road. It's hard to realize so many years have gone by since we stood up before a preacher with trembling knees and promised "till death do us part." Good years. Busy years. And we have such a beautiful family. So many blessings.

But I'll talk more about blessings and thanksgiving next week. This week I'm still zeroed in on that "Are you famous?" question the young man asked me at the Book Fair last Saturday. I decided this week that my best answer to him would have been if you have to ask somebody if they're famous then they probably aren't.

But his question still has me thinking about fame. What is fame? And why do so many people seek after it? I went out quote hunting to see what other people have said about fame and found out a lot of people have a lot to say about fame. So here are some of my gleanings.

  • You're not famous until my mother has heard of you. - Jay Leno
  • I never wanted to be famous: I only wanted to be great. - Ray Charles
  • A celebrity is a person who works hard all his life to become well known, then wears dark glasses to avoid being recognized. - Fred Allen
  • Fame is a vapor, popularity an accident, and riches take wing. Only one thing endures and that is character. - Horace Greeley
  • Don't confuse fame with success. Madonna is one; Helen Keller the other. - Erma Bombeck
  • Talent is God given. Be humble. Fame is man-given. Be grateful. Conceit is self-given. Be careful. - John Wooden

And you know what? The best place to be "famous" - that is to be loved and appreciated is in your own family. And we're all well known by God. So make sure you're building your fame in the places that matter most.

Till next time. Hope you have a great Thanksgiving next week.

Saturday, April 5, 2008

Showers of April Activities

Isn't it amazing how quickly the weeks roll by? Here we are in April already. Did any of you get caught on April Fool jokes? My five-year-old granddaughter tried to pull one on me by saying it was going to snow 3 feet. When I looked at her with a bit of disbelief, she quickly changed it to 3 inches. I guess she realized she wasn't going to "snow" Grammy with such a whopper of a story. So I played along on the 3 inches. Getting to say "April's Fools" is half the fun.

April is shaping up to be an extra busy month around here. Our church just built a new fellowship hall which is pretty close to miraculous for our little church of about 50 active members. But we've gotten a lot of help and support from former members and friends in the area. And the building is fantastic. I feel blessed anew every time I go in the door. We'd been having all our "eatin' meetings" down in our small and often damp basement under our Sunday School rooms that were built back in the forties. The sanctuary part of the church was actually built in 1875. So it's old. And no, I wasn't a member then. So this new building is a gift to our church. It's light and warm and on ground level with lots of space for everybody to sit down and eat together. We don't have to worry about what we'll do if it rains on Homecoming Day now. We'll just stay inside and enjoy. So we're celebrating with a Fred L. Knickerbocker Fellowship Hall dedication day the last Sunday of the month. We named the building after Br. Fred who has been our minister now for about 25 years. He was a vocational school teacher for many years besides being a pastor and all his students called him Mr. K. So we're calling the new fellowship hall K Hall. And of course, at our church any time we celebrate we have to eat, so we're having a big dinner with everybody invited. Come on over if you're close enough to know where Goshen is. The way my church in the Hollyhill books looks was based on Goshen, but only the dedicated, loving members at Mt. Pleasant in Holly County are like the people who were going to Goshen when I started attending there at the age of 17. And yes, that was a long time ago, too.

But that's not all that's going on in April. First I'm having my big event at my local library here in Anderson County on April 13. That's next Sunday. We're going to have a big time talking about my Hollyhill books and how much Hollyhill looks like my hometown, Lawrenceburg or really, any small town. I'm hoping to have some fun with '60s trivia and give out some doorprizes. I went shopping for them last night. Got to give away some Elvis, you know. If you've read Summer of Joy, you'll know why. I'm doing a repeat performance on May 8th at the Paul Sawyier Library in Frankfort. That's a Thursday night at 6 p.m.

On the in between Sunday, April 20, our church is helping a very special couple in our church celebrate their 75th wedding anniversary. Now that's an accomplishment. Loretta and Earl are the sweetest couple in the world and they're still able to live at home. Not only that, but Loretta still cooks a mean meal and is an artist with her sewing needle. You should see some of the dolls she has made. Plus she remembers all my grandkids' names when she's got a dozen or two grands and great grands and even a couple of great great grands. Both Loretta and Earl believe in Bible study and have read through the Bible a number of times. They love to ask Br. Fred Bible study questions. Earl is having some health problems. After all, he is 95. So say a prayer for him that he'll be able to enjoy his big day. The whole family is supposed to show up to help them celebrate and someone sent in the information to the Today Show. So if you're watching and hear them talking about Loretta and Earl on April 23rd, you'll know that they are two of my favorite church people. At Goshen, I have had so many wonderful church people who loved me without reservation.

I'm also going to be on a panel at the Southern Kentucky Book Festival on Saturday, April 19 plus a couple of speaking dates in the next few weeks. I know you'll pray for me. Thank you. I want to be an encourager to the people I meet and especially to those I talk to. I came across a quote while I was doing the bulletin for church this week. I don't remember exactly how it went, but it was something like this -- Sometimes we cheat ourselves when we just ask for our own prayers to be answered because the Lord may have so much more in mind for us.

Thanks for dropping by. Remember if you want to be in the drawing for an early copy of The Outsider, you need to go to my website http://www.annhgabhart.com/ and e-mail me. Enjoy your week.